Who is your Mother?

mother earthThis post is for those of you who feel emotionally neglected or otherwise let down by your parents.

I’ve recently broken off with mine, and it hurts to sever familiar ties and cut off from people who were once close to us.  But yesterday I had an epiphany I wanted to share with you, in case it might help you too.

I realised that I was born to my earthly mother for divine reasons not yet fully unravelled.  We chose to be in each other’s physical lives, and that must be respected.  But when that relationship becomes destructive and harmful, it’s time to move away.

Without wanting to go into details here about how my parents have caused me harm and abuse, I just want to tell you what came to me yesterday in meditation.

Pachamama is the Spanish word for Mother Earth.  While ‘Mother’ is my physical mother, and ‘Mum’ is my wonderful mother-in-law, Pachamama is my true mother.  The calling I hear from the stars is because I am one of them; because that is where I belong.  I am a divine being, destined for good things in this life; to spread love and connection.  When I hug and climb trees, stroke and lie in grass, whisper to flowers and play with fallen leaves, smell the earth and breathe in evening mist ~ that is me being caressed by Mother Earth, my dear and ever-loving Pachamama.

My physical mother chose her destructive path in this life, and though I have tried my whole life, I realise now that there is nothing I can do to change it.  I can love her if I wish, I can sympathise with her, but I must never empathise with her, because those are not my burdens to bear.

I can learn from her, and take the positive lessons moving forward.  The only mistake I can make now is look back.  The advice comes to me: Look around you and survey your current conditions, and you will see how great your life has become and the wondrous gifts you carry.

Never forget who your true Mother is.  Pachamama is always there, with her infinite wisdom, understanding and insights, her caresses and subtle whispers of love.


Pachamama said to me: We have been whispering to you incessantly from the start.  Stop listening to the destructive voices of your low-vibration parents, and tune in to our divine song, and you will find the peace and love you seek, and finally find the strength to fulfil your deepest and most secret dreams. 

I hope the advice in this post will help you as it has me, and that it brings you some comfort as we all walk this winding, perplexing and exciting path of life.

Until next time,



4 thoughts on “Who is your Mother?

  1. Me and my husband need help getting rid of evil spirits that are ruining and controlling our lives

  2. I read your blog tonight and had a similar letting go of my own low vibrating parents a year ago, and I knew the day would come…and I also have had a special connection to Mother Earth as a child – leaving home and playing by myself in the woods behind my child hood home – lying in the grass – hugging and feeling the trees there as my friends – the flowers and even animals in the neighborhood would follow me to the woods. I felt happiest there in the woods and wrote a poem about it that was published in national poets society when I was 15. As an adult I often visit in my minds eye my special place in nature and it is the most comforting place I have to remind myself who my real mother is too. My witch name is Elysian and I have started using my magic this year. I always knew I had some connection to the divine and to the elements. It became very clear to me at the end of last year that it was time for me to remember who I am and I am so grateful I did. so mote it be, Elysian.

    • Thank you so much for sharing your story, Elysian. It helps to hear of others’ experiences too. Many blessings to you <3

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